DW: A Common Experience, I think was the hardest to watch. Do you have a residential school experience prevalent in your family?
IK: Well, we are a couple of generations in Winnipeg. So not directly, not my mom, but I have grand-parents who were - to the extent though that, until the day they passed, they called it The Academy.
DW: Oh, wow…
IK: In my family, there was a big disconnect from what was “residential school”, but the after-effects were definitely passed down. Like the intergenerational effects of alcoholism and abuse and those sorts of things. My family did not escape that. I think that because the effects carry forward for so many generations, it’s something where my heart really feels for not only my family members, but for my community members in general. I think these experiences are very real for anybody who is Indigenous in North America. I don’t think any of us escaped either the direct experience or the spin-off effect.
It was really hard to watch A Common Experience. I find that any kind of conversations around sexual assault, or - bringing it back to the body, for instance - not having control of our bodies and not having ownership; or people feeling entitled to our bodies, because we’re “objects” - we’ve been classified in that way, as an object. It’s like there is a disassociation between our spirits and our core.
When I watch pieces like this, they make me feel down into my bones. As much as I don’t want to watch, I want to be like: No! That’s not a thing. It didn’t happen... but I know it did and I know it does. It’s been a part of my family and it’s been a part of everyone’s family, and it’s important to give space to those stories, for that to be part of our conversations. That’s the whole conversation around reconciliation and being able to be “uncomfortable”. You can’t heal unless you hurt.
DW: We can revisit that word “reconciliation” again because it’s such a buzz word right now. It definitely seems to be instigating a lot of programming and thought. Would you view these films as some sort of reconciliation process?
IK: I absolutely do. It’s like: the jig is up. We know what our stories are. We understand what happened. Sharing these stories is therapy; it’s important to not hold things in anymore. At the same time, for reconciliation to actually be happening, we need to have people listen and participate in these stories, not just us sharing them.
My selections here, I absolutely think are a part of reconciliation - provided that, on the other end, there is an active listener. That is to me the very first step, folks putting their sensitivity aside to listen. Even I had that reaction watching A Common Experience, where it’s like: “Oh gosh, this is so horrifying, and uncomfortable and devastating and...” all of these terrible things. My reactions are because of people I know that this has happened to. Because I am having this reaction doesn’t mean that I should be turning it off and not listening. I have to listen. We all need to listen. That, to me, is the biggest part.
You know, creating art is step one. People who are uncomfortable listening, is step two.
... I have to listen. We all need to listen. That, to me, is the biggest part.
You know, creating art is step one. People who are uncomfortable listening, is step two.